Why It's GREAT to be a Woman

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Why it's great to be a woman!
this post was written by women.
along with one commentator (MYSELF)
And it appeared as a "thread" on a forum (voy forums #87187)
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Reasons why it's great to be a woman ...
from Rebecca
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1) Short women are petite; short men are just short.

my response: very true. And this issue happens to be more important than you'd might think.
In short, women needn't worry about their height or Physical growth. (no pun intended)

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2) You don't need an excuse to be in a bad mood.

my response: Indeed, a woman can get into a bad mood, without needing to have a valid reason. And, people will usually agree with her, regardless of the circumstance. Has anyone ever considered the implications of this issue? Women CAN be moody, bossy, and temperamental. And, men will always tolerate this authoritive behavior from her.

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from Missy:
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3) A woman’s boyfriend's clothes make her look(charming, graceful) and gorgeous, however men look like complete idiots in women’s clothes.

my response: very true. Ironically, Men's Rights Activists rarely discuss this issue because it seems too trivial. However, it happens to be a major privilege to being a female. They are allowed a wide variety of clothing. Plus, they can also wear articles of clothing becoming of "Royalty". And, her vanity is never questioned.

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4) When women do “guy things”, we’re cute tomboys, however when men do “girl things”, they get teased and embarrassed to death as sissies or gay.

My response: once again: these issues seems innocent. However, women can truly enjoy such liberties, which males are denied. In fact, I've suffered negative stereotypes, for the most silly reasons imaginable. People often make fun of me, merely because I love flashy colors. And, I collect arts & crafts which are usually associated with female interests. I also collect "stuffed animals". This once prompted a girlfriend to ask whether or not 'I'm gay'.

----In contrast: when a woman chooses interests which are generally associated with 'tom boys', she actually receives special recognition for such. Therefore, not only is it acceptable for her, it's actually seen as a tremendous deal.

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5) MEGA------A woman can hug her friends and they won’t think she’s gay. In fact, she won’t think she’s gay either.

My response:
Once again: this issue is of the utmost importance. It's totally unfair for society to allow this type of bondage amongst women. From the time I was only 4 years old, I never liked the fact that, my female elders could hug eachother. Whilst, it was socially unacceptable for men, to do the same thing.

----ON SIMILAR TERMS: it's politically-incorrect for a woman to refer the term "Girlfriend" while speaking about her friends. Obviously, a male cannot use this terminology when discussing his male friends.

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6) Unlike men, women have virtual immunity from being accused of sexual harassment.


My response: YES. a woman can be very forward with a man. So, if she likes a guy, she can "go for it". The only thing which may prevent her from trying, is her own ego. In other words, she might not want him to realize that she's attracted to him.

----In contrast: Some women believe that, a man should never be allowed to show interest for a woman. MOST IMPORTANTLY, THIS STIGMA HAS BEEN PERPETUATED BY THE MEDIA.

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7) Unlike men, women can still LEGALLY discriminate on the basis of gender.

My Answer: Yup, You bet !!! This issue has seen a distinct evolution, through the years. Back in the 1980's, women were more likely to deny this fact. Whereas, now, they flaunt the idea.

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8) It’s GREAT to be a “daddy’s girl”!! But it’s VERY HUMILIATING to be a “mama’s boy”!

MY ANSWER: this issue is more important than it seems. If a teenage boy chooses to remain close with his parents, most people will believe that he's a sissy.

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For women it’s:
Free drinks.
Free dinners.
Free movies.
Free chauffeuring.
Free jewelry.
Free ... (You get the point.)
In fact, women can always AFFORD to date more than one person at a time!

My response: this is a total myth. Men surely don't need to buy your love. Rather instead, men do these special things for women, because HE WANTS TO. It's a token of his respect. He shows the highest regard for women. And, it's HIS CHOICE to give these privileges onto women.

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10) Ladies’ Nights!!! (Women don’t even need a date to get their drinks FREE!!)

My response: I won't bother to respond. Sadly, people think that it's necessary to promote these themes, since no woman would actually be interested in going out to meet a guy. right? This is very sad.

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11) When women are sexually aroused, THEIR bodies don’t make it obvious!

MY ANSWER: this is an example of poor ethics, on your part. WHy shouldn't you want the man to know that your aroused? Sadly, women try to hide their excitement from men. Ironically, I try to induce an erection, because my female partner wants me to show physical attraction for her.

----Men generally aren't concerned with the competitive aspect regarding sexuality.

----Whereas, it's the woman who always likes to "keep the guy guessing".

----Here's an extreme example: many women in their late 20s actually claim they've never been sexually aroused. How ridiculous !!!!!

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12) Dresses and skirts keep women much cooler in hot weather than the suits and ties many men must wear.

my response: Yes, I agree. Women can wear clothing which is comfortable. In some ways, she can even wear shorts in public, whereas, males generally are less likely to wear summer clothing. LOL.

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13) Women will never be REQUIRED to cut their hair short or take their earrings off.

My response: this is another example of social freedoms which can be enjoyed by women. Thanks for reminding us.

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14) Women can always be just as emotional as they like, and no one will call them gay.

My response: this has always been a key issue, throughout my life. I'm very sentimental, yet, women shun this personality. It seems, women prefer the type of man who displays little or no emotions. isn't that stupid ???? ANd, ironically, people claim that women are more complex. it's actually the man who seeks a bubbly personality. Whereas, the woman looks for the serious personality.

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15) FEMALE INTUITION!!! (Makes women often look like geniuses in the eyes of men!)

My response: Nope. Actually, men induce these compliments for women. In other words, he makes her feel as though, she's got special powers and feminine abilities.
However, whether she actually possesses these skills, is more legend than reality.

----ALSO, it's funny when people believe that women have a special intuition. Basically, she always worries about her family. And, this leads to the assumption that, she 'can often tell' when something's wrong.

----It's the equivilant cases when someone always believes that it's gonna storm outside. And, whenever it begins to rain, their prediction has come true. or, at least, it seems that way.

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16) Women get doors opened for them, heavy things carried for them, tires changed for them, and chairs pulled out for them.

My response: INDEED, the feminine status in society is truly magnificent.

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17) Women can choose whether to be completely independent or to use their “feminine guile's” to get the “physically stronger sex” to do their dirty work for them!!

My response: Here's another example of MEDIA HYPE. Traditionally, women have been in the better role. Men's tasks have always been significantly more difficult. But, for some unknown reason, people think that there's some sort of 'big fukking deal' , if a woman performs these unsavory tasks. For example: plowing, chopping wood, or , some other unpleasant task.

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18) Women can smile, flash their eyes, or even cry if necessary, to get out of trouble!!

My response: In all seriousness, whenever a woman becomes sad, or upset... the man will always cave-in, and agree to her thinking. Therefore, ultimately, she cannot lose. Because, even if he asserts his position, he'll immediately feel guilty for trying to 'stand up' to her.

----In other words, he rarely wins. But, those few times he gains the upper-hand, this causes him to quickly back down. He'll never allow himself to actually win the discussion.

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19) If you marry someone twenty years younger, you're aware that you look like an idiot.

my response: TRUE. people generally think that women are more sensible than men. However, nowadays, the media has begun to promote relationships between "older women & younger men". IT seems rather inappropriate for the most prestiged Journalists to encourage such a silly idea. More importantly, why aasume that the older person has the advantage, in this type of relationship? When someone dates a much younger partner, it's actually the Junior member who yields the emotional advantage.


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20) Women get to pose in front of mirrors for long periods of time and thoroughly enjoy having a much more esthetically pleasing body than men do!

MY RESPONSE: in other words, women are ALLOWED to be vain & conceited.
I have several female friends on MYSPACE. And, they're always using new profile 'portraits'. On similar terms, it's common for a girl to collect thousands of photographs taken of 'herself'.

----NOW, let me discus the idea that women are more aesthetically attractive than men.
It is RARE for a 40-year old woman to maintain her physical appearance, nearly as well as, a 40 year-old man.

----On similar terms: the male body is also very beautiful. If you've watched Olympic swimming since the 1960's , it's quite noticeable that the male body is perfectly streamlined. While, in contrast, the female swimmers are less perfected.

Mary says:
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21) Diamonds are a girl’s best friend. Dogs are a man’s best friend. It’s OBVIOUS which sex is smarter, isn’t it?

My response: ha ha. VERY FUNNY. On a more serious note, women can be self-centered, without being criticized. Perhaps, she decorates herself with expensive Jewelry. Or, she collects photographs which are all taken of herself. And, nobody will ever accuse her of being vein.

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22) When men make a mistake, they’re idiots.
When women make a mistake, they’re only human.

My response: YES, people are more sensitive to her faults.
Whereas, men are judged harshly, but, he's suppose to be a "man" about it.
OR, when all else fails, she could also be portrayed as a victim.

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23) When men take a stand, they’re being bull-headed.
When women take a stand, they’re being firm.

My response: YES. People always choose different terms when describing these issues.
----Women are called "assertive", while the man is considered to be "bossy".
----Women are 'taking a stand', while the man is simply called 'aggressive'.
----Women are 'challenging authority', while the man is deemed 'dominant' and flat-out wrong.
----SO, regardless of the situation, people always choose different words which are designated to each specific gender.

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24) When a man forces his wife to go without sex, he’s insensitive and cruel.
When a woman forces her husband to go without sex, she’s training him to appreciate her more.

My response: VERY TRUE. But, it goes much deeper than that.

----Basically, even if the man is sexually dysfunctional, this usually does not affect their sex-life. They make-love with frequency. The only difference between this and a normal relationship is, his body doesn't stimulate in a normal manner.

----In contrast: A woman could be very sexual & downright horny, but still chooses to deny sexual activity to her partner.
In other words, she actually chooses to pretend having a lack of interest for him.

----Hey, if you ask me: that's pretty scary !!!!!!!



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From Vicki:These ARE great reasons to be a woman!! I even have a few more to add too:

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25) TV sit-com and movie producers still RESPECT FEMALES!!

My RESPONSE: Yup. This issue has nothing to do with Liberalism or Extremism. Rather instead, males simply tend to be the mock of most humor. This is NOT terribly offensive. However, it's worth mentioning.

---- It's similar to those old Abbott & Costello films, as well as, The Three Stooges. The lady was always more dignified. So, it was much more likely, she would punch the guy in-the-nose, than vice-versa.

----I consider this to be a 'less serious' aspect to media differential treatment.

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25 beta A.) The vibration of a motorcycle seat feels “WOW!!” to us women!!

My response: it's funny how females always change their stories, regarding these issues.

----Usually, they claim to be less sexual. But, sometimes, they brag about the tremendous ease which a woman is able to feel sexual excitement.

---So, she gets the best of both worlds. She's able to deny her sexual interest, but still be proud of her high excitability. And, be assured, women can become easily stimulated.
Ultimately, No one interrogates her whenever she makes contradicting remarks.

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25 beta beta B.) MULTIPLE orgasms!!! MMMMMM!!!

My response: women usually don't let their partners know when they've had multiple orgasms. This reminds me of a personal relationship. And, one evening, after making love, I asked if she was able to 'finish'. She happily replied that she had done so, "THREE TIMES". After making this remark, she suddenly became very quiet. In other words, she didn't want to reveal this fact. She only said so, by mistake.

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25 beta beta beta c) Women will never discover they’ve been duped by a “Wonder Bra”; And no matter how little we women put into a “Wonder Bra”, the guy becomes our slave!

My Answer: Most men will definitely worship the female sexuality. Basically, He treats her, as if, her sex is God's Gift to the World. (unfortunately, many people fail to recognize this as a privilege.)

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26) MEGA MEGA MEGA
Guys have to take the big risk of being rejected and publicly humiliated when asking a girl for a date, but we girls merely have to display our female charm and then privately wait for “Mr. Right” to come to us!

MY ANSWER: I take a VERY STRONG POSITION REGARDING THIS ISSUE. I've NEVER liked the double standard, to which, the male is supposed to ask the female for-a-date. Ironically, women love this arrangement, but still pretend to be angry when you approach them. It just doesn't make any sense. She wants to be the pursued, even though, our laws demonize men for being the pursuer.

----PERSONAL INSIGHT: IF I COULD CHANGE ONE SINGULAR SOCIAL-INEQUITY, THIS WOULD BE THE ONE ISSUE WHICH I'D LIKE TO REVERSE. I'd like to exist upon a society, where the girl is supposed to ask a guy out-on-a-date.

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27) Females are treated in a far more humane way than males by everybody!

My response: YES. It doesn't necessarily mean that people are mistreating men. This quote merely suggests that people are generally more tactful toward women.
Plus, this issue applies to a wider range of issues, as well.

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28) We females NEVER have to be concerned about somebody checking out OUR genitals while we’re peeing!

My response: I've always been concerned by the lack of privacy in Men's Rest Rooms. Not only are we at risk of being seen by female cleaners. But, additionally, men are not given privacy from each other.

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29) Unlike men, when we women, the morally superior sex, walk down the street, catch a bus, or look at billboards, we are never confronted with posters and stickers that say "Real women don’t abuse children" or "Real women don’t hit men" or “Real women support their kids”.

We women will never be humiliated by condescending public signs.

MY RESPONSE: INDEED. "Activists" & "Social Workers" launch campaigns which are supposed to encourage parental equality. But, instead, their slogans are downright insulting. "Anyone can be a father, but, it takes a real man to be a daddy". Those type of Billboards are a total slap in the fukkin' face.

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30) These signs kind of remind me of the good advice I often give my boyfriend: “Do it RIGHT, dear! Do it like a GIRL!!” LOL




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ANN SAYS
31) :...when it comes to having sex. Women will never have to feel embarrassed and inadequate by "going soft" in the middle of having sex!! And we women will never have to hear our mate patronize us by saying "It's OK, honey. That just happens sometimes.

MY RESPONSE: A man NEVER needs Viagra, when he's alone. I just couldn't resist a funny joke.

----IN ALL SERIOUSNESS: This happens to be a major concern. Sometimes, male sexual dysfunction could be a simple case of "trying too hard".

---- ALSO, women tend to be very insensitive regarding these matters. It's unfortunate how, many men must fear having a normal sex-life, merely because he's likely to lose his erection. Ironically, intercourse brings every bit as much pleasure to the woman, whether or not he's able to maintain his erection. SO, women need to be more sensitive, realizing that the man can sometimes be nervous. PLUS, he suffers from some degree of 'performance anxiety' because he worries about whether or not the experience will be good for the woman.

---- Here's the solution: men and women should make love, and it shouldn't matter whether or not the man becomes easily aroused. Either way, sex is great.


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HERE'S A REPEAT OF THE ABOVE INFO, WITHOUT THE COMMENTARY

Women tell, why it’s so wonderful to be a woman

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